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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi friends.I want to discuss on the Topic: Difference between just physical attraction towards a person and real love towards a person.I wants your opinion and frank thoughts. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): Love takes a long time.
The biggest problem teenagers have is that they think the first decent relationship is love.
It's usually because they have nothing to compare it to. They like & care about the person more than their same-sex friends, so they think that must be true love. But there's more to real love than that.
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female
reader, k_c100 +, writes (19 January 2009):
This is one of my favourite quotes and I think it sums up perfectly the difference between love and physical attraction - hope it helps!
"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident."
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