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anonymous
writes:Lately, I've been crushing on this guy and he knows because I drop major hints, and even TOLD him. He was the one to tell me he liked me first, but then one day, I asked him if I should give up because he started to act strangely and he said "If you want, I still kinda like you though." That day, he tried to ask me out afterward but we were interrupted. A few days later, he starts ignoring me. Like full on. We have a class together, and he wouldn't even look or talk to me. And he majorly flirts with a lot of girls. Like this one girl, she'd hang off his arm and stand really close to him and he wouldn't move away.My friend told me that he told her he was going to ask me out during spring break, but I'm scared he's already lost interest or is going to.Am I reading too much into this, and why is he acting this way?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 March 2011):
 I would not try and "make" him interested, either he fancy you or he doesn't, can't have it both ways.
I'd let him go and look for someone who knows what he wants and goes for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): Just let it go ... if he were genuinely interested in you he would have asked you out by now. It's never a good idea to throw yourself at anyone, they won't respect you for it, and they could hurt you with it.
Take a deep breath, head up, put a great big smile on your face ... and forget him. Love will come your way, nothing surer, and you probably when you least expect it.
I wish you a happy, healthy and love-filled life!
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reader, poisonous  +, writes (10 March 2011):
Well definitely something might have happened. It clearly shows he was interested in You. Maybe after you have been interrupted..he came to know something about you or whatever...i think you should question him about him changing his behaviour towards you
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): He wasn't that interested to begin with and i'd just let it be and not throw yourself at him. Some other guy will come along who will like you and be thrilled you want to be with him.
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