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writes:When I was dating my ex boyfriend, we always used to go visit a young man at a career counselling center for youths on welfare. I think I sort of had a crush on him and I got the feeling that he was attracted to me too, but because he was married and I had a boyfriend I never acted on my feelings.Anyways, I broke up with my boyfriend and then this guy (the career counsellor) started treating me differently. I noticed that when I went into the center if my ex was talking to him he would give me dirty looks, and this one time I even heard them talking about me (I heard my name). I think it's very unfair and unprofessional of this man to take sides. I know he and my ex are very close. This man (the career counsellor) isn't married anymore and I heard he has a new girlfriend. I haven't talked to him in a long time. Should I go talk to him just for old times sake, or let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2005): Good God! Let it go!
There are other people in the world. You dont need to be starting trouble by throwing yourself at your ex's friend. And he is on the rebound too. Just no.
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reader, lillaum  +, writes (12 November 2005):
 Hi There
I think maybe you should just let it go. He was married and now he has got a new girlfriend. It doesn't sound like he is interested , perhaps your were just reading into things that werent there.
Get yourself a new career counsellor, and move on.
good luck
lillaum
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