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writes: If a man has cheated on his first wife and divorces her. Then marries the Gf he had the affair with and cheats on her and divorces her.Will he continue this pattern with the current Gf?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (14 December 2007):
 "A Man that Marries his Mistress creates a Job Opportunity".
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): I guess rather than relying on "statistics" the most important and first thing to do would be to establish the reasons for why he cheated.
What was lacking in the women and the previous relationships that caused him to want to be with someone else?
With that information you can determine if it is a problem that can be addressed and resolved in the present relationship or if it a problem that is indicative of being inherent in his personality.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 December 2007):
 Yes, steer clear.
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (14 December 2007):
 There is a higher chance the behaviour will be repeated in my opinion.
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reader, Midge +, writes (14 December 2007):
 I'm sorry to say but more than 75% of them will be constant cheats. I'm not saying it is a certainty, but you can bet that he will always have the propensity to want to look elsewhere.
If he has cheated on every solid relationship he has had, the chances are, he will cheat again.
I have a friend that is like that, and he admits himself that as hard as he tries, he cannot be faithful to one woman. He marries them only to find that he strays within a year of the marriage. His wife finds out, divorces him and then the cycle starts again.
I'm sorry if you are in a situation like this, its no fun for you always thinking "is he gonna stray". If you are in a situation like this, and its not serious yet, I would get out before you get in too deep, dont want to break it off...............and land up hurt!!
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reader, maggie1987 +, writes (14 December 2007):
 probaby will continue his pattern because some men when they do it once and realise what they lost they wont do it again, but if hes done it twice then theres a higher chance there will be a 3rd and maybe a 4th
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