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writes: Im a 17 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend on and off since I was 15, he was my 1st and I no I love him and he says al the time he loves me but then for no reason he will end it and be nasty and hes gone with other girls and ive 4given him cos I love him so much,he always makes an effort to get me back but when hes got me he dosnt make an effort to make it work at all, he ignores me and hardly eva sees me then he will end it again, it goes round it circles, I want it to work but I duno if he will eva let it.dunno what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): Take a stand for yourself, don't let him toy around with you like your a little doll! Just because he was your first, does not mean you are bound to him... If he can't see that he is ruining a good thing then that is his problem, let him suffer... you shouldn't have to suffer for what he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2006): I had a boyfriend very similar to this. I met him when i was 15, and was with him until i was 17 on and off. It sounds to me like this guy is doing exactly what my ex did; messing you around. He knows that he can pick you up and drop you when he wants, and you will still be there pining away for him.
Play it cool now, when he comes back again, ask him straight out, what is it he wants. Tell him you are sick of being messed about now, it has gone on for far too long, and he is either with you or he's not.
It will break your heart hun, like it did mine, but you have to do it. You will never know where you stand with this guy unless you do something about it.
Take care, i wish you all the best
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