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writes:I'm in need of some serious help.I have totally and utterly stagnated in my life. For want of a better word, moribund. Possibly depressed although who knows.I need some suggestions of things to do, to make me actually feel alive, in the next week.THANKS :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2006): Do not fear but TRUST, be honest with yourself...you don't want to carry on like this. Life is for living, enjoy! God bless you, whoever you are.
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reader, helpme100 +, writes (21 May 2006):
I know exactly how you feel. I have hit that point myself. Probably happens to everyone.
In the next couple of weeks I am going to do the following -
Go to lots of gym classes to make my body feel physically better.
Go to lots of standup comedian shows to get my mind in a funnier place.
Go off road driving to get a bit of excitement in there.
Do a bit of kareoke and really humiliate myself but try to have a laugh.
Dream up some good jokes to play on my friends.
Tidy my physical appearance up, haircut, shave etc and randomly start conversations with good looking women in bars. If their not interested be friendly and make a friend who may then set you up with someone, you never know your luck.
Get a new part time job in a social environment like a pub, it will help build a social life, your expected to talk.
In the summer I plan to go on holiday to Spain and hire a speed boat, a big one, and invite people from my hotel and have a party on board - its not as expensive as you'd think. Get really drunk, not irresponsibly though.
Contact friends I have not seen in years for a talk and try to meet up with them by using email, phone numbers text. Might even stalk some people for a while. I'm only joking with that last one.
Remember life is really a gift. Even when we feel at our lowest, get some perspective. There are always people worse off.
Hope some of these basic ideas can wake you up and keep you busy.
Good luck mate
If you want anymore suggestions or want to talk send me an email and we can exchange woes.
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