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writes:He is slightly older than me and we have been meeting in our university campus between and after classes for like a month and a half. We constantly text each other in college to find out when we both are free so we can meet up. We went out on Valentines Day for a movie, coffee, lunch but no one wished each other. We have going for movies,lunches, teas walks during college hours when we are free and weekends but he hasnt made a move on me however he is always suggesting to meet up all the time. He is very caring and is always interested in my life and remembers stupid details from our conversations.Does he like me? Are we informally going out? Will he make a move on me? Am I someone he thinks about? Or are we just friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): I think he likes you and he is showing his respect by not making a move on you. Keep up with the dates and getting to know him and when things feel right tell him that you really enjoy your tme together and that you like him.
Try touching his arm more, or just briefly touching him while talking. Look into his eyes and hold his gaze a little longer than seems comfortable. He will feel more confident then in making a move to kiss you, or if he is supremely shy and you see him tilting his head down and looking at the ground or something while saying goodbye to you, then you kiss him first, if even only on the cheek.
He sounds like he needs encouagement, but not major sexual overatures.
You are lucky. He sounds like a decent guy.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Yes he likes you - a lot! He may ask you but dont hold your breath, some guys can be shy.
Ask him would he like to go on a date, have some ideas of where to go planned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): My opinion is that he's probably having the same doubts that you are. You can bet he's thinking 'does she like me?' right this second :)
If he seems to remember the slightest details from your conversations, he must be very interested in you - whether that's as a friend or more.
However, no one can really decide to make a move or not besides you, so just pay attention to his behavior, and you'll soon find the answer to your questions.
Good luck! :)
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