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writes:ok i have a made a huge mistake..there is this real cute guy in college and everyone thinks that we look awsome together and i know that this guy too lets call him mark checks me out but hasnr spoken to me as yet..even i did not try talkin to him although when we meet in the hall way he stares at me!!!i was so excited and thrilled with the tiny things he and i were doing with each other without even talkin to one another...so lately my friend just told me randomly that mark and i look good together and here is when i made the mistake saying that we are seeing each other and he is my boyfriend i lied!!!please dont tell me to tell her the truth she may think i am a retard!!!i just want things to work between me and mark and he really becomes my friend..but how do i go abt it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 ok well I understand why you dont wanna tell her you lied, its great in theory but how mortifying would it be to actually do that?
Don't worry about your friend too much though. You've learned from this and wont do it again which is the important thing. Try asking the guy out, it sounds like he likes you so i'm pretty sure it'll work out well. And you know, the best way to get rid of a lie is to make it the truth.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 "well the prob is its 2 late for me to tell the truth"
It's never too late to tell the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell the prob is its 2 late for me to tell the truth i have made up all sorts of shit stories and told her..no she wont tell him or ask him anything because i told her not to and plus we rarely meet..we dont have classes together..i feel stupid sometimes
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (2 April 2008):
The truth is gonna come out. If she thinks you're with him she's gonna talk to him - she thinks hes her friends boyfriend. or at least she's gonna want to know why you arent spending time together.
One lie leads to another and the longer it goes on the worse it'll be when the truth does come out. If you have just said it once to her then its easy enough to fix. When she mentions it again tell her you were just joking to get her off your case about him and you just said it to shut her up.
As for him, if he's checking you out and staring at you its pretty safe to say he likes you. Hes probably shy so i think you should invite him out somewhere. Just get talking to him about something - anything - then you could mention a party/barbeque/day at the beach your friends have planned and does he wanna come?
Then you have to actually get your friends to plan a party/bbq/day at the beach lol.
take care
brooke
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