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Help! How can I deal with not being able to see him?

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Question - (19 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I hate my life, unless I'm near or with this one person. I'm in constant agony, dwelling the past and the future when I'm not around him. It's rare that anyone notices because I hide it really well. I'm sick of being like this but it's going to get a lot worse very soon.

Simply put, this man I'm talking about is my teacher. Not the point, because I'm not trying to pursue a farther relationship (and he wouldn't allow it either).

But one more quarter of the school year (about 2 months) and it's summer vacation. I won't see him for months. Then next school year, I still won't see him much. I'm crying at this moment thinking about it. I don't know how I'm going to get through this. My stomach and my heart hurt terribly (I know it sounds cliché but is true). I feel like I can't breathe. I don't want to imagine what it'll feel like when it's actually summer... This is kind of tough but please help.?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010):

Thank you so much, that did give me a bit of hope that I'll get over him.

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A female reader, UnknownGirl United States +, writes (20 March 2010):

I was in your situation when I was 15. (I'm 17 now) and I fell in love with my teacher. Summer was coming and I knew it would be hard. It was, and it will be for you. I went more than 3 days without sleep and eating at a time. I was very depressed wanted to kill myself many times, but I stayed strong, and this is what you must do. I never thought I'd say I was over him, and although it took me a year and a half, I've moved on. I'm sure you will too. Hope this helped.

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