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writes:It seems my boyfriend and I can't do anything other than missionary position... we have tried me on top but it just didn't work and he kept slipping out or couldn't get in at all. I feel I want to spice it up with different styles, but I'm not sure how without going for contorting my limbs out of joint with Kama Sutra-esque positions!Anyone have any tips?xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (14 August 2006):
 Hey there!
Sexybum's advice is great, but if you are still on the missionary, chances are you two aren't that experienced in trying much else, so don't move too quickly into experimenting until you feel completely comfortable with each other.
Try something simple. Have you tried lying side by side and him entering you from behind? That is a really good one to progress to from the missionary. He is lying behind you, lift your top leg up (he could hold this up for you) and let him gently thrust into you. This position is great because even with the smallest movement you can create different levels of pleasure - e.g. try staying on your side face your chest to the ceiling, that way you can kiss each other, or try rolling completely on your back and drape your top leg over his body.
I had a lot of trouble with me on top when we first started having sex, I think basically because I was too nervous I was going to move wrong or do something not sexy or something stupid like that! Maybe save this position until you are completely comfortable with each other and have tried other positions? Have you tried doggy style? Or another really really really great one is on the side of the couch. Have him kneel on a cushion on the floor and you lie on the couch with your legs open, butt off the side of the couch and feet on the floor. He can hold onto your thighs and thurst up into you. Try it!
Just remember to ease your way into new positions and don't be discouraged if you don't 'get it' the first time, just keep practising! xxx
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (13 August 2006):
 Hi
Why not try different places as well as positions! If you 'do it' in a different place to what you usually do you might just end up also doing different positions, you will have to cause you'll have to change your position to suit your environment!
There are loads of things you could try... First of all you need to say to your boyfriend that you want to experiment more.... Get a bean bag and you can use that to help prop you up in your adventures.... Try blind folds.... On the stairs, on a table, the list of variations is endless.
Your sex life can be spiced up not only by trying different positions, (because we all know there is only a certain amount of positions that we can manage!) but also by trying different things that you do, games, dressing up, blind folds, locations, etc.
So my advice is to try and spice up other areas first and the rest should naturally follow.
Good luck and have fun ;-) Sexybum xox
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