A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:A couple of months ago, we had a new district manager start at my work district. We spoke a few times and he seemed like a really nice person. About a few weeks later, i was on a shift and he came over and started helping me with my work, i thought okay helpful, it made my job alot easier, so i thought nothing of it. Then a week later i had another shift with him on. I was carrying on with my work, when he came over to collect some thing off me. As i was getting it, he went and put his arm around me, which made me think what is he doing. Then later on that day i was quite busy, in the middle of something and he came over and put his hand around my waist and squeezed it, i turned round and he started chatting to me. He walked off again after that, then later on in that day again, he asked me how many early morning shift I do, I told him and said i didnt like waking up so early in the mornings. He then said oh well at least you got tonight off and you can go out. I just nodded along and carried on with my work, then all through the day, he kept asking what i was doing that night, until i answered that i was going to an evening class that night. He seemed interested and was asking questions about it. Since then it got strange, everytime he was on my shift, he'd flirt with me, single me out from the rest of the staff, like pick on me, but in a friendly way, he'd make make jokes and wind me up. Also he'd find ways to touch me, like when i was on the computer, hed make a joke then put his hand on my back and start rubbing it, and every shift he'd ask questions and what my plans are over the weekend. Well after a while, i realised that I had feelings for him, so i liked the attention i was getting off him. People even had said that maybe he liked me. Then Untill just recently, i stopped having shifts with him, I didnt see him anymore and i wanted to see if he did feel the same way I did. So i sent him an email, saying I liked him and asked him out for a drink and put my number in. i thought it was right at the time, but now i think it was a silly thing to do.I never got a reply back, but i did get a strange phone call off him though. He rang me one day, i picked up and said hi, and he started saying "can you hear me?" I said "whos this", I knew it was him though. He kept sayin can you hear me, I cant hear you." I heard him clearly over the phone, but he kept asking if i could hear him and that he cant hear me, He then said "ohh i cant hear you" and he put the phone down. Since then i havent heard anything off him. So i took it as hes not interested. But i think at the same time why did he behave the way he did with me and what was with the phone call in aid of? I don't know for sure if hes told people i liked him, but ihave feeling he has done. Im confused about this, could anyone give me some advice on this?
View related questions:
flirt Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, QZ  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 If he's stooped to "prank calling" you (since that's what that call seems like) then I'd just move on. Relationships in the workplace are hard because if they don't work out it makes an awkward situation for everyone, not just the people who were involved together. Move on, because I'm sure there's someone amazing waiting out there for you. (:
A
female
reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 I think you just forget about him and move on.
Like bernard said he might have a wife at home.
Good Luck!
...............................
A
female
reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (27 June 2010):
Yea stay away from him! to weird for me.
...............................
|
