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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, and although the spark hasn't died for me or even fizzled a little, I feel like it might have for him. We went to collegs 2 hours away from each other and saw each other on school holidays and talked every night on the phone. But now that it's the summer time and we have the opportunity to see each other more often, he seems to spend a day a week with me and spends the rest of the week partying with his friends. It wasn't like this at first, he would spend multiple nights with me and take me out to meet his friends and out on dates. Now he never includes me in anything he does, even if we're together and he has to stop by a friends house to drop something off. Sometimes he doesnt even call. He's told me again and again how he loves me and we've even discussed marriage. Our sex life hasn't faltered, we have sex at least once every time we see each other and always bring each other to orgasm. We had an argument a little while ago about his smoking (and I don't mean cigarettes) though so I'm guessing that's it, but I hope that it's not something deeper. I just really want to know why he doesn't want to spend a lot of time with me. Please help!
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 Hate to tell ya darlin', but there maybe a another woman in this picture. Long distance relationships are tough, especially in your situation two different colleges. You are a very smart woman. I think you have this figured out already. I think you just need the push in the right direction. Yes, I think it's time for that discussion on where the relationship is going. And I also feel bad for you on this one, you will ultimately will have to give up the relationship. Unless you desire to be cheated on. Let him go, sweetie. You can do it.
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