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writes:How can I win my boyfriend of 5 months back?He dumped me because we weren't allowed to see each other very often because my dad didn't like him.But we always said we'd find a way past that and see each other when he was old enough.If anything, he was more into it than me.But then one day he broke up with me on facebook because he said he didn't realize how hard it would be and not being able to see me/talk to me was tearing him apart. He also said he thought the reason I was dating him was only because it annoyed my dad and I got a thrill out of it.I was quite emotionally shut off from him because I knew when this happened I would get hurt; so I dismissed some things as cringey and never told him I loved him. I laughed at the idea of being with him for years and living together when he brought it up. But that's only because I didn't want to get hurt, and he was very wrong about my intentions.I know he loved me. I also realize now having lost him that he was pretty much the one.What can I do to convince him that we can work when I'm old enough, have no work, and my dad isn't in control of my life decisions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2013): You really need to get together the two of you alone somewhere nice and just talk. Tell him how you really feel towards him and explain to him that you had genuine feelings for him but the timing just was bad for the two of you. If he really loves you then he will understand and you might be able to work on getting around the complications. I hope you get another chance with him, it sounds like you really could have something special.
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reader, Lady in Love  +, writes (17 February 2013):
 hunn, if he is really the one fate will get you back together!if he is really the one you wouldn't say : " he was pretty much the one" you would say he is the one.you seem to like hi but i don't think you really love him because you did not think about his own emotions when he brought up the forever together issue!all that mentioned, to get him back i think you need to see what is life without you like!-post a lot of pictures with your friends having fun, yet always mention :" a party missing some one to be complete!"-keep offline chat and try to communicate with the other friends some other way and wait for some: "are you okay" message or phone call.-finally after a week of total absence, message him saying that you have had thought a great deal of what he said when he broke up with you, only restating what he said.....then according to his reaction you can know if he is worth all your agony or not.-if he answers and what was the result of your thinking, then he wants you back, say that you miss and love him and that he was never a tool! say the TRUETH!-of his answer was, why are you talking to me again, he is not worth your thinking and efforts.tell us what happens with you,best luck!
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