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writes: I am pretty sure that I will be leaving my live-in. We have been together off and on for five years. Me bending over backwards, finally giving in. We have never done 'couple activities', besides going out to eat 7 times in those years. However, I always tried to look at the overall picture. Now, I think I want my ex back, who is my girls dad.(She is grown). I think I have also severed our ties, but not sure. Am I wrong to think or feel this way? I've felt like this for a long, long, long, time.
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reader, Cindy303 +, writes (2 April 2008):
What is the overall picture here that your missing? This man and you are better off not together. Why are you the only one working in this relationship? You bending over backwards and giving in?!?! Not having any sort of relationship, going out only a few times in all those years. Your daughter is grown and you need to move on with your life, as hard as it seems to do. What was so appealing about this man that you want him back? If you were not happy then, what has changed that will make things better the next time around? Best Of Luck. Cindy
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (2 April 2008):
Wow. It sounds like you didnt listen to your heart and waited too long. Remember the reasons you are apart and then remember the good stuff. If the the good stuff outways the other then deffinitely try. Just remember that those things you didnt like are probably still there and will pop up from time to time.
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