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anonymous
writes:Hello,I was involved with a guy for a few months, but we were never in a relationship,,just took it casual.. but few weeks ago he went studying abroad. We didn't promise anything, because it's far,so we said goodbye. After he left, we've been in contact through facebook, we chatted and often flirted..i realized i really missed him. but then he stopped to text me suddenly, so it's been always me who iniciated contact..and then i stopped to write to him too, because i didn't want to look clingy.. now i see all the photos with his new pretty girl schoolmates and i'm soo jealous.. i realized i really miss him and i have deep feelings for him, but it hurts me he doesn't contact me. I know he had some feelings for me but i'm not sure now, it's like he forgot about me already.. i think about it all the time and i'm jealous...should i tell him i miss him or will i sound too clingy or desperate? does it have any sense to tell him i miss him when he's so far away? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2017): He suddenly stopped contacting you. He's now posting pictures taken with other women. I think you should just forget about him. He has already moved on.
He's already making friends and getting familiar with the local girls. It's best that you discontinue any further contact and stop following-up on Facebook. It will only get under your skin and make you feel worse.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2017):
 It sounds to me like you both where casual. He knew he was going away so he simply enjoyed his time he had with you. To me it doesn't sound like a good idea telling him you miss him because he is so far away and I doubt a long distant relationship will work when he is not even making the effort to contact you as it is. Your best way forward is to stop contacting him and move on.
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