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*rokenhearted19
writes:My ex and I have been broken up for about a 2 years. We were high school sweethearts but he cheated on me in the 11th grade with a girl i thought was my friend. We broke up for a while then i got back with him. So it was kind of off and on from there. 12th grade the girl he cheated on me with got pregnant so its obvious he was still F***ing with her. That broke my heart we broke up completely that was 2 years ago. We just started back talking a few months ago. he said he really wants to be with me again so we have been talking about it.I told him he really hurt me and she did to cause she was suppose to be my friend. I really loved him and now im considering going back with him. He was my best friend I felt completely comfortable around him and we could talk about anything.Recently I hung out with my friend and her boyfriend which is also my ex's cousin. We were at anotha one of my ex's cousin house. Just drinking and smoking and having a good time. I never met his cousin and i didnt know their were cousins until the other day. Well one thing lead to another and i ended up sleeping with his cousin. I honestly feel bad because i wasnt in my right state of mind. So a few days later my friend calls me and was like did u know that was your ex cousin dat u slept with and i was at a loss of words.I dont know if i should tell him or just leave it alone but therefore i dont want someone else to tell him. I care about him alot and i know it would hurt him if he hears it from somebody else. We are not together but still should i tell him??
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reader, Brokenhearted19 +, writes (3 August 2011):
Brokenhearted19 is verified as being by the original poster of the question WELL...i told him and he was really mad about it and now he is ignoring my phone calls and texts..I will leave him alone for a while...Let him cool off.. and to the anonymous girl who said ......."do u make it a habit to sleep with a man that u just met?"...No i do not, that was the first and last time..like i said i wasn't in my right state of mind but i admit i make mistakes because l am not perfect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): yes u have to tell him.........otherwise you will be just another cheater who keeps secrets bec u know when the truth comes out, well............
if u truly want your relationship to work then u know what needs to be done.
do u make it a habit to sleep with a man that u just met?
LoveGirl
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (3 August 2011):
You just said it that you dont want him to hear it from anyone else, so no matter how hard it may be, the safest thing to do is to tell him yourself before anyone else does, and let him make up his mind if he wants to go ahead making up with you.
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