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writes:I'll keep this short (or as short as I can).I met a girl (lives like 20mins drive away) online like a year ago and we've chatted lots on MSN n stuff - we finally met up around a month or so ago.I am a little confused with things though...We both live at home still, but her mum doesn't know about me - i am guessing because she is 17 and i'm 25.Anyway - i've tried finding out her feelings for me but she is quite shy as it is...and doesn't talk much about her feelings.The question is, does she like me as more than friends? We've shared a bed a few times, we kiss, we hug, we 'explore' etc...and this makes me think she does like me and wants more...but if there was to be more - she'd have to tell her mum about me.I've kinda gone off the point now...anyone got advice or had a similar problem?
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reader, iloveamy +, writes (14 May 2006):
iloveamy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate...
I seen her quite a lot this weekend, she met me from work on friday and we went back to mine and she met my parents - then we went out for something to eat and to the cinema, then took her home.
I picked her up on saturday afternoon and we went to Leeds (i am in UK if you hadn't guessed) where we went shoppin, had a few drinks, food, played pool, more drinks etc...then back to mine.
Again we shared a bed and she was happy for me to 'explore' etc...she's juts been so quiet this weekend i don;t know what to think.
I'm going to try take it slow, and easy...see what happens - if its gonna happen, i guess it will and she'll tell me her feelings when she's ready.
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reader, bonym +, writes (13 May 2006):
 Hi my friend, sorry about that, I presses add my answer when I only typed the letter M!! Anyways here is what I was going to say, it seems pretty obvious to me that this girl likes you. You say you have shared a bed, kissed, etc etc, well if she didnt like you then why would she allow that to happen. As for the mum, thats no biggie, it doesnt mean that because she aint told her mum she doesnt like you, girls are funny about telling their parents things like that, its just the way we are!!! Listen my freind, dont worry, I think she may just want to see how things go before she starts introducing you to the folks!!! Best of luck and I do hope you are happy. xXx
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reader, bonym +, writes (13 May 2006):
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reader, iloveamy +, writes (13 May 2006):
iloveamy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmartini +, thank you for your reply.
The 'her mum knowing about me' bit is not a mojor issue, although it would be nice eventually to be able to go round and stuff when her mum is there...instead of when the house is empty.
The main thing is the 'more than friends thing'...i can only find out for sure by asking her, and hoping she will tell me her feelings. However...the stuff we do/have done (shared a bed a few times, kiss, hug, 'explore' etc) point to that she is happy for more than friends..........am i right??? or am i reading way too mich into it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2006): Why does she have to tell her mom about you?
I once dated a girl for about a year, my mom didn't know about her until after we broke up. My mom probably knows that we were seeing each other, and asked a few times, but my usual answer, "[Grin]" then change topic.
Seriously though, why is this such a big deal for you? She'll break it to her mom when the time is ripe. I don't see a point, unless you want to ask Amy's (guessing that's her name) mom for her daughter's hand in marriage.......
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