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writes:Ok so for new years me and my siblings wnt out to a club,I'm 18 my brother is 20 and very protective.We met up with his old bestfreind from highschool.His freind was quite goodlooking and could'nt keep his eyes off me,my brother didn't take it that way he just looked all proud and said yep she's all grown up.He then went off with his girl and left me with his freind.I'll call him Jack.Jack has known me his whole life but has'nt been in town for a few years.He just kept saying your so different,you look so different and kept staring looking all shell-shocked.We were never freinds or anything I was just his freinds annoying little sister.My brother seemed to think jack felt that way still.He did'nt he kept his hand on my waist all night,then he let his hand slip further down.Turns out he has a girlfreind.I mentioned all that happened to a freind and she said no no,there not really a ouple they just stick together sometimes I was like sure ok..But then everyone else said the same thing,that they were definatly not exclusive and just hung out sometimes.I was like yeah sure even so.The other night my cousin and I went to the pubto see our mutual freinds band play.Jack turns up with some freinds and i exspected him to come and say hi,But he did'nt see us.Later on I felt someones eyes on me and of course there's jack sitting watching me,even as I notice him and look his way he does'nt shy away he just keeps watching.It kind of looked like he was considering coming over.I found it kind of awkward so i so i just nodded my head.His girlfreind was there..haha i was put off bye this of course then she left with another guy in a very freindly fashion.My cousin turns around and says urgh its jack,she then continues telling me how she and her ex-boyfreind were both really good freinds with him but when they broke up he sided with the ex.She turned around in a really obvious way and glared at him,He got up and left.I'm not really sure were to go from here,I know he's interested but I can't imagine appealing to him once he got to know me.I'm a boring person and besides My brother would burst a vessel.But the fact that he's around and he's gorgeous and..Im not sure what to do whether I should try to meet up with him or not.I dont even no were he hangs out,Im sure not gonna ask my brother.Any ideas..Im not really sure what my question is exactly but some imput would be nice.Oh and if anyone has negative comments to make just keep it short becuase something like-"its not worth it" makes the point that's all I need to hear.thnx,
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (17 January 2012):
 He's in it for the sex. You want to know how I know? When he first saw you all grown up, he couldn't stop staring. He saw you grew a pair of boobs and all he was doing is touching you and feeling you up the day you met. If he cared for you as a person and wanted to get to know YOU, he would have asked you out on a date, not getting to know your body with his hands.THEN when you saw him again and he didn't even say hi to you. Why do you think that is? It's not like he's shy! Why didn't he come up to you again and grab your waist and feel you up, or at least say hello? It's because his girlfriend was there. He can't be seen doing all that in front of his girlfriend. It would just get him in trouble, or get him dumped. Clearly he doesn't want her to leave him, or he would have come up to you. I can bet you if she wasn't there, he would be all over you again because he wants some fun on the side - AK he is a cheater.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 January 2012):
 If I am honest with you, I don't think you should chase him for the simple fact is you know he is involved with someone else, weather it be a girlfriend or not, he seems to still be involved with her, plus he is your brothers friend.
You don't want to be knowing as that girl who steals other girls men, believe me it would not be a nice reputation to have. I think you should just take a back step and see how he responds to you when he sees you. See if he makes an effort with you. If he does well then I think you should ask him does he have a girlfriend to see what he has to say. If he doesn't well then by all means go for it if you like, you are an adult. However you also need to remember that he is good friends with your brother so might not want to over step that line either. I guess what I am trying to say is just go with the flow and don't over think about him to much, just take it step by step and see how it goes. Good luck.
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