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anonymous
writes:Hi. I'm a freshman at college and I'm not sure whether a girl likes me or not (I have quite a huge crush on her) - it's kind of depressing and driving me nuts. We're in the same course.She always uses my name in a conversation (after she found out my first name). For example, she always uses my first name when saying hi or bye, and constantly uses it during the conversation, whenever she asks me a question or etc. I don't know what this means. Could it possibly mean that she's nervous and trying to keep it formal, or what?She gives me more attention compared to other people and takes time and effort to start conversations with me. Could that just mean she's being nice, though?I have pretty bad eyesight, but sometimes I think I can catch her looking at my direction.Is there anything I can do without flirting to help me find out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2011): Ok now you have given that detail then it changes things. A tutors job is to connect with the students and even if she liked you she would put her job at risk. Move on a focus on your fellow students, there will be plenty of girls around and you are still young! Enjoy meeting new people!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can't ask her out.. She's my tutor of sorts.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 October 2011):
 She talks to you.. step one out of the way!
Best thing... ask her if she'd like to get a coffee or soda with you and see what happens...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): Hi
I would just be the one who starts saying hi first and try intiating conversation, even if it's completely pointless just talk about class or ask if she understood the tasks! You could test the water by suggesting you study together over a coffee? Treat this as building up a regular friendship and see where things go. If she says yes to meeting up it gives you a chance to get her number as you'd need it to arrange meeting and it's not like you've asked her on a date. Just keep things cool and enjoy getting to know her!
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reader, Mylifesnotadreamyet +, writes (18 October 2011):
Okay to make this simple... If she likes you she will be just as nervous around you then you are with her. This where you have step up a bit. This is when gentlemens such as ourselves need to stand out. You won't stand out blending in with everyone else. Start with asking for her number or start by asking her if she would like to get coffee/tea. From there it will progress. Keep in mind. Smell good and be confident and smile. Also try to be a listener instead of a talker. From there you will feel more comfortable around her then you ask for her number. Also you don't want to text her every second...unless there is a spark. (you'll know when you spark). Only call her if you want to arrange to meet up. In your situation you can always call her to do homework together or study. So it works out pretty well. Hope I helped if you have any more question feel free to ask.- Alec
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