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writes:I've only had sex with one girl and that's currently my wife, but she has other partners before me whom she had sexual intercourse with. I'm only curious to know if the whole penis size ordeal actually came from the porn industry or if its really the women preference to like huge dicks. I never really know if i satisfy my wife (penetration wise) because she has had bigger members than me and I don't think that what I have does much for her. Please I would like some opinions on what you're personal preference is, or otherwise I'm gonna end up divorce from lack of satisfaction lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2011): So, maybe she did like the bigger ones...but she isn't liking them now, she's liking and loving you.Last night I went into the store to get something, a hot looking chick, slim, sexy, nicely turned out, with sexy dress, maybe 2/3 my age, looks at me a smiles nicely. The kind of woman that would make my wife feel insecure if she had seen this.Well, she needn't be, because I'm all hers, I'm liking and loving her.Doesn't matter what the other girl has that she doesn't.Same applies to you and your wife.Keep that in mind.Tell her you love her every day, tell her that you love her every night, kiss her every day even if you aren't getting along. Make her feel like a million dollars every chance you get, and hopefully she will do the same for you.
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reader, GodJudgesAll +, writes (3 January 2011):
GodJudgesAll is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your answers and support. I do please my girl in a loving manner and do more than just penetrate her lol I do understand that you have to be loving (which I am) to warm her up and get her in the mood. i love it personally, but me being me, just had to wonder if she likes what I have. I just really think that she liked bigger ones.
P.s Gabrielle Stoker I think most men would love to hear that from women lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): Satisfying your wife is more than just sex. It's the whole deal, before, Leading up to, during, after and beyond the sexual act.I am sure you are kind and respectful to her the rest of the time. You may be worrying without the need for it. Your wife might feel you are fantastic, but (naughty girl) just forgets to tell you.But if the sex is what concerns you then intuitively women pick up so much, and itall contributes.A woman likes to see you are eager and excited, not worried - and she sees that in your eyes.She loves a playful mood, and a cheeky grin. Good sex is never sleazy, but nor is it a solemn sacrament dispensed like Communion on Sunday.And it's varied - in front of a blazing fire, on the rug one day, in a cabin overlooking the deserted beach another day. It's planned one day, and spontaneous another day.Get the book 'the joy of sex' for some ideas.Read all the great articles on this subject in the DC articles on this site.And good sex is lots of loving foreplay. Try to get your wife to orgasm at least once with foreplay before you even penetrate her. Slow the penetrative sex and start kissing her long long and longer.Kiss her all over. Lick her all over. You can give her another orgasm with your fingers with enough practice. Listen to her urging you along, 'more' then do more. There will come a time when sheshould be demanding you enter her. When you have come, hold her. Talk gently to her. Let her know how important she is to you. Let the sensual you have full reign. If she wants to soap you all over in the shower then let her.Enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): F*** porn man. It puts so much stress on both genders to look like a certain way. Id rather have a smaller dangle and please my wife using a variety of different methods besides intercourse, than have a giant one and only be able to satisfy her in fewer ways. Contrast to what comedian Tim Slagle states, "Women look at inches like they cats, 12 is never enough". That statement dun hold water... if youre insecure about your size ask your wife for reassurance and how it makes her feel good. Best to you pal.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (3 January 2011):
 My preference is for...well anything above 2.5 inches is just dandy, actually!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): First, it is a fallacy to think that size doesn't matter. A man who is very small will naturally not 'fit' with his woman, just like a man who is too large. Many women are in fact scared of men who are too large. Too large hurts.
Many women, especially younger women (30) can't orgasm from penetration alone, and foreplay and coaxing and touching and loving is needed to help her reach the place she needs to be so that she can orgasm.
It's a man's role to learn to understand his wife/partner/gf so do what is needed to do that. Ask her. If she is shy, do some reading. Search on the internet, there are many resources (google: david shade), and despite what we would like to believe, 'making love' is a learnt behaviour, and it isn't just about humping a girl with your thingy :)
the good news is that you are young and therefore presumably fit and athletic. learn everything you can. treat her like a princess beforehand, during and after, and use all your appendages (well, not your feet *lol*) and your tongue and you really can't go wrong.
size won't matter then ... but it will if thats the only weapon in your arsenal.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (3 January 2011):
 If you really want to know, ask her. If you really aren't measuring up (sorry for the pun), find out what you can do to satisfy her needs. Many women are unable to reach orgasm by intercourse alone. Foreplay could be the answer (if there is a problem).
But unless you ask her, you will never really know.
And remember, added length and girth alone doesn't necessarly mean she will orgasm any better than a smaller penis.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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