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writes: I'm 15. This guy and I have I guess sort of liked each other for about 4 months but we are not going out. He got hurt before like two years ago by someone that cheated and he hasn't dated since. He told me he has trouble getting close with anyone because of this. Anyway, he knows I like him and I kinda pursued him, but when he didn't do anything about it, I just backed off. I stopped IM'ng him or trying to talk to him. Then all of a sudden he starts talking and IM'ng me again and says he wants to hang out, but when it comes down to actually making a date to do this, it seems like he makes excuses, so I think he's not interested, but then he says stuff like he does want to. I don't know what to think. Does he like me or not? I don't know if I should keep on waiting or not bother anymore. I really want him to ask me out but this hot/cold game he plays drives me nuts. He is not shy and girls like him, but he just doesn't seem interested in anyone. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): That's a good question! My boyfriend use to do the same thing to me. All you have to do is be patient and keep letting him know that you understand. Tell him that you're willing to what for him because that's how special he is to you. If you tell him that and you really mean it, he'll be your man in no time. Just be patient and he'll come to you. By the way, if he does become your man, whatever you do "Don't Cheat On Him". If you do he'll never forgive you. And not only will lose a man, you'll lose a dear friend. Trust me, I know
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reader, agony ashleigh +, writes (5 March 2006):
yes i know what its like im only 12 though anyway maybe you should try just being friends with him and supporying him through anything good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): my bf was and kinda still like that he likes to keep people at a length. when we were first together he wouldnt open up to me at all. so i cant give you great advise but i'll tell you what i did. i try to get him to talk about his past reltionships, try to talk about what he wants for us, try to talk about how he feels. i then told him that i like him alot but i couldnt make a promise that we'll never break or that things will work, i can't tell him that i'll always be there but i can promise that i'll be honest with him with my feelings and how things are. then after that i just was there for him and about a week he final started opening up.
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