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female
age
41-50,
*hanib
writes:Dear CupidMy brother in law recently tried match making me with a single friend of his! This guy started messaging me and things began to flow.He started off pleasant enough but the messages soon started to turn very flirtatious! He knew of me as I'd dated a friend of his about 12 yrs ago.So he knew where I was living etcHe started messaging me one night and knew I had a a few wines.The next thing I know he has turned up near my home wanting to see me! I have a grown up son and younger ones tucked up in bed so I was anxious about this guy turning up!At the time I didn't know if to be flattered or insulted! We had a snog but it was clear he wanted things to go further! I wasn't prepared to do this as it's not my style and eventually he left! I asked him if he wanted to meet at the weekend instead and he said yes!Since then I've had no contact from him at all!Obviously I'm not chasing this guy and feel disappointed he thought id be so easy! So I'm guessing he was chancing his luck and didn't get any!I have been single 15 mths now and whilst I miss the physical side I don't want to be someone's easy option! So since I didn't actually do the deed with this guy is he likely to think I led him on, will he reject me now?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 September 2014):
 I think that he HOPED you'd be that easy- he did try his luck, and he did not get any ( almost. The kiss, remember ? ).
Now if he has rejected you or he is going to reject you, I don't think it's because he felt you were leading him on. Probably, it's because he just wasn't that into it to begin with- meaning, he was ONLY interested in some easy , no stress option, which would not include any courting, chasing, planning, making time etc.
In other words, if it's totally no sweat and you fall in his lap, he is interested. Otherwise, he is not.
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