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anonymous
writes:ok i am like one of the only girls in the year yet hant got off with a boy yet it really is getting me down and there are loads of couples in the because i havebnt gott off with a boy and i am a virgin does this make me more of a catch or not? all my freinds say i am pretty witch is nice but all of them have got off but i havent and all the boys a lot nicer to me than they are to them.is there somthing wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (19 October 2007):
 Just because everyone else is doing it doesnt mean you should, you respect yourself more then your friends wait till you find someone who you really like instead of just doing it for the sake of it.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (19 October 2007):
You are a prize. Don't give it up without a verified true love after you turn 18.
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female
reader, cd206 +, writes (19 October 2007):
 There's nothing wrong with you. Sometimes pretty girls are more intimidating to guys in the same way that you might feel intimidated by a really nice looking guy. At your age it feels like there's this huge race to get to the finishing line as quickly as possible with a guy but really you'll get a lot more out of your relationship, not to mention respect if you save yourself for someone special. I would say to anyone even considering having sex with a guy that it's important to have a chat with your doctor about contraception first and ensure you're 100% vready and not get swayed by what your friends say. As someone who's been there you need to bear in mind that it's not a given that theyre being honest with you about how far they've got. Take it at your own pace, not theirs.CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Wait for someone special! Why cheapen yourself...you deserve somebody fantastic and should settle for nothing less!
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