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Not attracted to him anymore and breaking up with him--would deeply hurt him! What should I do?

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Question - (3 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2007)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My bf and I have been together for 6 months. We have become really close to each other. But I am finding that I no longer feel any physical attraction to him. He loves me so and it would break his heart for me to tell him this. Do you think I should stay with him or break up? I still want to be friends with him because he has become such an important part of my life but I don't know if I can continue to have a relationship him.

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A female reader, tasha556 United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2007):

tasha556 agony auntI agree with Kenny you have to be honest with him because pretending to feel attracted to him will hurt him more later on in the relationship. if he really cares about you he will stay friends with you. hope everything goes okay xx

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (3 June 2007):

kenny agony auntIf you really feel like you can't have a relationship with him anymore then you have got to be brutally honest and tell him how you feel. The longer you leave it the harder it will become.

Sometimes in this life we have to be cruel to be kind. Staying in a relationship with him if your feelings are no longer there is not fair on the guy, and you are giving him false hope.

Tell him how you feel now and don't put it off any longer, it will be a weight off your shoulders and you will feel better for it.

Good luck x

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