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Having 2nd thoughts a lot about this guy--should I stay with him or just go?

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Question - (3 June 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have had my boyfriend for a few months. He lives about an hour away and I only get to visit him on the weekends. During the week I seem to have second thoughts about our relationship. Like where is this going, if I really want to be with him, what am I doing? I talk to him for long periods of time during the week to make up for not seeing him but I still have seconds thoughts. But when we are together on the weekends things get hot and it seems like all my second thoughts during the week melt away.

He is moving back to town in September though.

So should I continue on with this thing we have going or just break it off? I really don't know how to handle my changing feelings.

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A male reader, Wasteaway Canada +, writes (17 August 2008):

You should see where it takes you. I went through something similar with my girl. I felt like I wasn't ready and I was getting thoughts of breaking it off but I didn't. I kept through and now I am so happy. Things get better and hotter. I have a saying that works and goes a long way. Give things time and enjoy the time you have. If he really likes you and you really like him you should stay. Second thoughts come but don't let them get to you.

I hope this helped. :)

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