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writes:I have been going out with my boy friend for about a year. We are both in college. About two months ago we broke up for about a month and then got back together. During the breakup time I went out with another guy for a while and sometimes I gave the other guy head (blow job, oral sex). One of the things I noticed was that the other guys cum (semen) was different than my boy friend’s cum.When I give my boy friend head (blow job, oral sex), his actual cum (semen) is really thin and watery, has very little taste, and he wants me to stop giving him head shortly after he starts to ejaculate. The other guy that I went out with, when I gave him head (blow job, oral sex), his actual cum (semen) was really thick, it had a very strong salty and nutty taste, and he released many times more cum than my boy friend. The other guy also encouraged me to keep giving him head after he started to ejaculate, and even if I stopped for a second to swallow, he wanted me to go back to giving him head. One of my friends said that the other guy that I went out with was more turned on by getting head, and therefore ejaculated more strongly. But I don’t think it is that simple, is it?Is it normal for guys to ejaculate so differently? If so, what causes the difference, how I give head, how much the guy likes getting head, or just the way some guys work?Also, have any other woman noticed the same thing between different guys? If so, please let me know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Food has influence on the taste of our sperm. My wife is extra happy when I eat every day pineapple because the taste of the sperm is more sweet. If I eat very spicy, the sperm is more spicy (I heard from different sources). A lot of fruit and especially pineapple is making the taste of cum more sweet.The volume is very different from man to man and is not depending on excitement, but is more depending on how long ago the guy had an orgasm and on the nature of the guy.So depending on the interval and how much he is giving normally he will give you cum. If I had a few days no orgasm, more volume of liquid is cuming, if it's my 3th orgasm that day in a relative short moment, the volume is decreasing. The volume has (to my experience) no influence on the power of the orgasm (ask my neighbours :)) expecially when you come inside, only when you see the sperm cum, the experience will/could be stronger with more cum. Test it yourself, let him cum 3 or 4 times or more with some time to recover and look who the volume changes.Have fun and make him cum... :) (and don't forget yourself, because the fun must be mutual)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Aunty Rach and Chrissa for replying so quickly.I agree that diet has an influence on the taste of cum. But what about the thickness of the cum? Does anything seem to influence how thick it is when it gets released?Chrissa, I understand what you are saying about waiting a couple of days, and then with extra stimulation more cum will be released. But what confusses me is I was with this guy almost every day and he seemed to always release a large amount. Is it possible that the oral stimulation was enough or does it sound like something else? (If you need specific information, please let me know)
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reader, chrissa  +, writes (4 January 2009):
i do believe that it does have a lot to do with your diet also. From the view of a man i also believe that it has a lot to do with not how turned on you are but how relaxed you are, if your man has something on his mind he doesnt have to be thinkin about it but you will find that he is not quite as relaxed as maybe you would like him to be. It can have a lot to do with the sex factor. If you have regular sex his sperm count will be down. A mans balls are creating semen all the time having regular sex is like regularly emptying your money box there wont be anything in it. If for instance you wait a couple of days then tease your man to heighten the sex factor either by giving a sexually arousing massage and touch and rub the genitle areas without carying out any sexual treatment then you should also find he will cum a much bigger quantity combine these you should be on the button.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (4 January 2009):
i think it has alot to do with their diet and health. i did hear that different foods and drinks can effect a guys cum. i can't say for sure if it is to do with being more turned on or not. one of the guys may answer that one. but i am sure diet is a big one.also if they smoke alot, that does effect the taste.
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