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writes:i really need help. i'm 15. i have a boyfriend. we've been through a lot together and have a lot of past together. we went out all summer and even went away together and then we broke up and now we're back together.. i really have felt like i've fallen in love with him.. i just feel so good with him. we get into a lot of fights though, over the littlest things. but i don't care. but there's a problem.. i got high the other night (don't say anything about this i know it's wrong but it's my life..) and i saw my ex's face in my bf's face when i looked at him. so i began to start missing him. i called him the next day and he texted me later and we started talking. we just said how we missed talking and asked how each other has been and stuff like that.. then i got high last night too and he texted me and then i texted him saying a lot of stuff. i told him i missed him and i wanted him and love him. i know i get a little lovey when i'm high, but deep down inside these things may be true.. we also had a lot together in the past and i honestly do miss him. but he lives in a different town and i barely ever got to see him. but i still had really strong feelings for him.. and whenever i talk to him i just feel like they all come back. and i feel bad about this.. cuz i have a boyfriend.. i just don't know what to do.. i mean i know it's not fair to my boyfriend cuz i'm feeling like this but i don't know what to do.. if me and my boyfriend broke up i know i would miss him and being with him and i couldn't see him with anybody else.. but i just miss being with my ex. what do i do? should i tell my bf about all this? and don't just say yes just because.. really think about it.. it's tough.. i just need some advice. please and thanks! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): This is difficult to answer. Firstly i dont know much about smoking weed (which i assume you are using to get high) but i know it messes with your mind as it can cause paranoia, so i would suggest thinking more about how you feel when your not using this stuff. secondly it is perfectly normal to miss an ex - you obviously spent a lot of time with them - i think about mine alot of the time but that doesnt mean i want to be with them. Thirdly ask yourself why you broke up? it clearly didnt work out for some reason the first time, so why would it if you tried again? as for telling your bf i dont think i would as it will only cause arguements and make him jealous. I hope this helps you :)
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