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I'm desperate for sex, but hubbie is not...

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Question - (4 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female Afghanistan age , anonymous writes:

Hi cuppid:

my name is annie and i recide in conecticut. i live with my husband and marry for 25 years. after i get on my fourties im getting very hot on sex. sadly my husband doesnt want to coperate and i finish doing nothing.

today i went nuts and i scream at him and he doent understand why i fell this way. im verry tired to be going true this . sometimes i fell like end with him and live. i know everything is not sex. but plesse u net to have it, is healthy in any relationshipl

plese reaply

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A female reader, angelnikita United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

Hey there how are you, if you go screaming at your husband then maybe he will think you dont value him as a person any more and just a sex object, he could be going through a mid life crisis some men dont like to think there getting older, for now why dont you do small things for him give him lots of hugs cosy up beside a hot fire feed him him some aphrodesiacs give him massages on his back use massage oils light some candles in the room, massage also in places he liked you to touch him before all these little things go a long long way and he may warm to the occasion dont come on too strong about the sex thing because it will put him off. good luck hope all goes your way x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

Sure it's healthy to have sex in a marriage, but if you try to pressure him into having sex by screaming at him I can tell you that it definitely won't work, in fact it will have the opposite effect and shrivel him up like a plastic bottle thrown on a fire. What he needs instead is tender loving words and soft caresses.

If you've got the figure for it, turning up unexpectedly in sexy underwear might get his sap rising. He might have medical problems - get him checked out by the doc. Maybe he's just got bored with you after 25 years.

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