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writes:i broke up with my partner of 7 years in february, i did not feel sexually attracted to him anymore we argued all the time i did not even want to kiss him but stayed with him purely as we have two kids.I met someone else just for sex and found my sex drive again i liked him a lot but nothing has come of it which is fine as i have the kids to think about but now my ex wants to get back with me my sex drive has gone back to 0. I don’t want to get back with him but i was really horny before he asked to get back with me and was starting to feel happy again and now i feel depressed and no sex drive again what is wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2024): If you felt sexually attracted before then it's the arguments that need addressing because that was what made you lose interest in sex. So whatever the underlying issues were you need to look inside yourself as the same things could crop up in future relationships.
Why is sex so important to you? It's only one part of a relationship. What do you really want? We're you having sex to feel loved?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 April 2024):
 You are not attracted to your ex. You are not sexually compatible.
Learn to co-parent the best way you can for your kids.
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