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writes: HiI've never written for sex adivce out of nervousness but I need some advice. I am in my early twenties and don't think I have ever had an orgasm. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I told him I have had then but infrequently, but now I don't know if I have. Moreover, when I masterbate, it feels good but then all of a sudden at the height of excitement, I feel sick to my stomach and totally turned off. I enjoy sex but can't seem to get beyond a certain point.What is wrong with me??Signed,
Orgasmically confused
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (29 May 2007):
Hi Don't Have An orgasm.
Wecome to the "I don't Have An Ogasm Club" Being A man, Doesn't make me qualified to say how a woman should or should not feel Orgasmicly Speaking. What I do have to say comes from what many women. and what they have to say about their sexuality. It is An established fact that what triggers any, and all, women's orgasms is the direct stimulation of the Clitoris. Only one woman out of three can have, and do have, an orgasm With indirect clitoral stimulation All Penile thrusting by a penis within the vagina is an indirect stimulation of the clitoris. A man's orgasm also depends upon the direct stimulation of his Glans Of Penis. That is the outermost knobby end of the penis It too needs to have direct or indirect vaginal or hand- simulation to induce an orgasm in men Both you and your Boyfriend need to read some good books on the m/f genitas My recommendation is ESO "Extended Sexual Orgasm" By Alan P. BrauerM.D. and Donna Brauer.Published By Warner Books Inc. !983-ISBN o-446-51270-2. I call it my Sex Bible.
A reader, melanie, writes (3 January 2005): Don't fake it. Tell your boyfriend that you need more foreplay. Relax and push all thoughts from your mind. You'll know when you have one
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2005): One girl you need to definetaly get a dildo. A good one too. And secondly if you keep having this little problem get a different guy, (unless you really love him.) Or try changing sexes!!! I was always told that the only person who knows what a woman wants or how to please a woman was a woman.
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