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36-40,
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writes:I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend. we have been dating sense we were 16. our relationship was amazing for the first 2 years and the physical side of the relationship was great, then she became more and more distant and the intamacy just about ended which caused seious insercurities on my part and fights. this past summer she broke up with me and said she really thinks this will be good for us and maybe will get back together. well we did 5months later she wanted to get back together, things were good for awhile then went right back to her not wanting any intimacy. i intiated every kiss,hug,compliment everything. she tells me she loves me very much but is just unhappy and miserable. she doesnt want to hurt me but feels trapped and wants to tell me that we need a solid amount of time away from eachother but doesnt want to lead me on. she says she has nothing left to give and no matter how well i treat her she cant be happy. i know she isnt cheating or wants to be a party girl that isnt her. i know she loves me but i cant seem to figure out how this happened besides the fighting over sex like she says. i dont harp her for it or expect it everyday, once every 2weeks would even satisfy me. i love her and for some reason cant let go..how can i solve this or tell her how i feel(which i have) so we can continue this relationship like we once did. i must be doing something wrong.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 February 2010):
The time has come to move on. Her problems run so deep that for you to stay is going to end up with you even unhappier. You aren't doing anything wrong. This is about her and her own feelings. It's best for you to move on.
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