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writes:I fear I have been deceived by my current partner who chops and changes his mind with the wind.Possibly he has been under the influence of another person but when he is near me he doesn't like anything about me and then he expects me to love him.It's depressing as the scenario unravels. As he is charming to others I feel very isolated. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 July 2016):
 My guess is that you do not trust your current partner? You think he is cheating, what has made you feel like this? He expects you to love him, but does he show you love? Does he make you feel loved? Or worthless? The thing is if you are not happy with this man, then I suggest ending it, life is to short to be stuck in an unhappy relationship. If you feel he shows others more attention than you, then talk to him about it, tell him how unhappy you are and see what he has to say.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 July 2016):
 Has he said that he doesn't like/love anything about you or is that how he MAKES you feel?
If so, why stick it out with him? As I can gather from your post you aren't married so there is no (hopefully) legal reason that you HAVE to stay with him.
Whether there is another person in the mix or not is kind of irrelevant as HE should be in charge of HOW he treats you, not some faceless 3rd person.
If YOU aren't happy why stay with him?
Do you guys live together? Can you take care of yourself financially?
Figure out what you want and the make your plans, then put them into action.
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