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writes:Hi, I had a bad fall out 6 months back with a guy who blocked me on both phone and Facebook.I am doing pretty well so far, getting on with life and work and not feeling depressed or anything - however I STILL think of him on a daily basis and who he is now dating etc! No matter how much I try - I can't seem to move on or get him out of my head.I mean he was even pretty horrible to me in the end - but I still hoped we could be friends again or make it up one day - even though we haven't spoken since Christmas!!So my question is - how do I get him out of my head! Why do I still care so much? Is this normal behaviour?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi - thanks for the answers so far - but that's just it - I ( the OP) still think we may become friends again - even though it's unlikely now, so how weird is that? I can't just seem to accept we're not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2015): I think time heals most wounds. You just have to get on with your life, keep busy, hang out with friends and family, meet new people, and eventually you won't think about him any more. I Think you have to come to terms with the fact you won't be friends again. His life has moved on and so has yours.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 July 2015):
 Is it normal that you want to be "friends" with someone who was "pretty horrible to you" - I don't think so, but seems like a lot of women wants to keep men who was NOT NICE to them, IN their lives, instead of cutting the "dead meat".
What is the POINT of being friends? When he can't EVEN treat you with some semblance of decency? How do you think he can manage a "friendship" with you?
How do you get over it? BY accepting that he WANTS nothing to do with you. It may not even BE your fault he feels that way, maybe he is just an asshat - but he DECIDED to cut you off and out of his life and MOVE on - YOU should try the same.
There really IS no point in keeping negative people in your life. They CERTIANLY do no improve anything for you.
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