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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi all!,Dont wanna confuse you but i feel really puzzled about my new guy and would like some advice.I met a guy around a month ago got chatting/ went out etc, and we've seen each other practically every day. We got speaking about intimate things and he said he'd only ever slept with 1 gal, and he would never ever hurt me. (ive been told that before by my ex who broke my heart)I dont know whether to believe him as he often comments on gals, always looks into the hairdressers where his ex works, speaks about his holidays with his ex and stil keeps photos of her.I dont mind about the photos as i still have pics of my ex, but i feel he is not completly over her (they split up 1 year ago)I asked him about it and he was all like 'im completly over her, i hate her, would never go back etc'. and he is always telling me how much he likes me.The thing is i really like this guy and i sooo dont want a repeat of my last relationship ; so am i right to doubt him or should i just give him a chance?Sorry for the long postThanx xx
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (2 October 2007):
 something is telling me he would if he could.
it doesn't seem like he is over her, using the typical hatred speach, if he was over her if wouldn't look into her place of work, probably hoping she was there to see you with him and make her jealous.
but i don't know this guy, maybe it is innocent, but i he defo sounds like he still has feelings for her.
talk to him in a fashion which lets him know you think he'd rather be with her than you.
best of luck
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