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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I realize that people have certain types of significant others that they are attracted to. For me, I tend to gravitate to men of the caucasian race. And even though I find men of my own race attractive I have never found someone of my own race so appealing that I have wanted to pursue a relationship. I haven't even slept with someone of my own race. I feel like I am the only person who has experienced this, all my friends have dated within and outside of their race, so why can't I do the same? Is something wrong with me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (30 July 2009):
Nothing wrong with you. We all have things that we look for in a mate and sometimes those characteristics are simply better represented in a different race. Fortunately with the world becoming more integrated and people mixing up more than ever before we all get a lot more choices.
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reader, busy04 +, writes (30 July 2009):
There isn't anything wrong with you, if you can't find anyone that interests you in your own race, then hey...keep looking outside of it. There may be one, there may not be. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters.
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