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writes:hi guys I'm new to this site but I just love writing I have already written a book but I daren't get it published stupid eh!Anyway... I just wanted to tell you all a little more about my little life and some of the experiences I've had....well here goesI am 19 years old and I have a gorgeous baby daughter and she is my whole world, I don't have any contact with the father because he is a dirtbag and has told me he doesn't want any contact with me or his daughter but that's his loss and that isn't what I am gonna write about today.What I am gonna write about is this guy I've recently met, we're just friends now because he always had something better to do than spend time with me so I told the guy that he isn't gonna mess me around and he replied with but I don't want to split up I really like you! But I just asked myself this guy has known me 3 weeks I have seen him 3 times and have given his a dozen chances to make up for the 'cancellations' and he really likes me... sounds like it doesn't it! So yeah just friends... but he always says things like we'll just see how things go because he isn't ready for a relationship now but he might be one day...and I just wondered what these people actually mean when they say I'm not ready for a relationship right now but lets just see how it goes. Do you expect us to wait around till you decide what you want?Is it just a nice way of saying sorry love your just not my type, but your close so I'll make you feel like it could go somewhere?Anyone feel free to let me know of your own views and if you have any answers then please tell me I'd love to hear them.Lynda121xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Well I remember saying that to a girl that was in love with me. What it meant for me though was "I do not love you". But a little bit more...
It could very well mean "sorry love your just not my type, but your close so I'll make you feel like it could go somewhere" but for me it was a little different that maybe in time I could see how great she really is and become to love her since she already loved me "so much".
This guy you are talking about though seems a little loose, but um, I guess for now keep fishing. And good luck!
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reader, Zambonee  +, writes (5 May 2009):
Lynda121....
Why buy the Milk whenthe Cow is free (No pun intended)
Dump him, take care of your daughter move on :}
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reader, Dbiddy +, writes (4 May 2009):
 Hey you need to get your book published, I'm working on mine and I have about 20-30,000 more words to go. I have been working on it a little over a year now, and too me... it's very good. Anyway, You are still young, if you like this guy that's fine, but enjoy yourself, don't wait on him. It appears he's enjoying his self. I wish I could take my own advice, but my situation is a lot more complicated, bye the way I'm 34. You're young, enjoy yourself, I got involved with a man 13 years older than me. I was 22, I regret it so much, but he did give me 2 wonderful sons....
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