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writes:can you help me please.i need some one help.i never got my first kiss and would like some help please.1)how do i get a guy to kiss me is any way i can do it.2)how is it done?like what do you do?3)how does kiss feel.this is genuine question i really need genuine help with my question. because i missed out and i feel very bad this has happened me .i feel so sad and pathetic and feel undesirable and unsexy for guys to me kiss me i have intimacy problem Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): Kisses don't have to be great. My first kiss was with a stunning boy, and he was totally into it but I had to hide the fact that I wasn't really into it. He wasn't doing anything wrong either, he was gentle, perfect, but I didn't feel anything special.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): its just a suggestion - not stating that you have to do this. But you could always use one of your male friends as practice. I found that i didn't really enjoy or get kissing until i'd practice a bit. Although you have waited all this time therefore you may not want to just throw away this special moment on a friend. But you may be more comfortable with a friend first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): Well a kiss is something that comes naturally between two people. You need to meet someone who you feel comftable with and when the mood is right, you'll know what to do, believe me!
Asking about kissing doesn't really help that well as most things, because you tend to forget when you're in the moment. Kissing is all about practice, you'll get better as you go on and as they say, practice makes perfect!
Don't be so hard on yourself and beat yourself up about this, It's NOTHING to be ashamed of.
You normaly get alot of butterflies with your first kiss.
How kissing feels will always depend on the moment, the person and how it happens. If it's a perfect moment and with the right person (Someone you really like, etc) then it will feel amazing! and you will feel amazing after too!
Good luck and all the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): I remeber my first kiss now lol. Well how to get a guy to kiss you.. um well i guess you got to be together going out. If you are together, going out yes he will be wanting to kiss you to he just might not have enough corage, my bf didnt have enough corage to say it to me so he texted it. How is it done what do you do. ok depends what kind of kiss you want to do first i recomend a plain peak on lips or cheek. if lips remeber to tilt your head to one side a wee bit. How does it feel.. well it feels GREAT!! lol i was 10 when me and my bf kissed i knew i loved him and i knew he loved me. after wards you might feel a bit dizzy lol i did because i was so happy and yeah :)
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reader, lolliepopprincess  +, writes (11 April 2010):
right first i there a guy that likes you or your close with?...
if so say one day you were taking a nice walk in the woods. you sit down. and start talking. and if he hugs you or told you something really sweet. you look up at him and stare at his lips. chances are he'll kiss you. if he does kiss you then just let him do his thing. kissingcome natuaraly! :)
your first kiss you may feel butterflies in your stomach. kissing is so cute. good luck! :) xxxxxxx
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reader, danni95 +, writes (10 April 2010):
hiya, there is no need to feel that way about yourself you are not unsexy you just have to wait for the right guy to come along to have your first kiss with but heres some advie that will help you. you cant really force a guy to kiss you but if your with someone you like just be yourself dont be shy and for sure they will be dying to kiss you as your being yourself and it doesnt matter if your pretty or ugly no one is ugly and everyone gets their first kiss you just have to wait, then if this guy does happen to kiss you tilt your head slightly to the side, wrap your arms gently around him, then just go with the flow and just follow his lead its simple, usually kissing someone feels good it depends who it is if its the guy you like then or sure it will be the best thing that has happened to you if its your first kiss. hope my advice helps.
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