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writes:Okay, well im 15 atm and the guy i like is 17. We have been good friends for about 2years now and i'v been away on tour with him before so know him pretty well.We used to be closer before and he always used to hug me and put his arm round me etc. but we started to grow apart after not seeing each other for a while.But now we are becoming closer again and its really great.He has said to people he likes me, but hasent really made a move, and i dont want to yet either.but i was wondering if anyone has ny ideas how to get him to hug me , put his arm round me, or kiss me on the cheek of head etc. please tell me, or anyother suggestions to get more closed please help.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (23 October 2007):
 I think this is a tricky one because I think what you are really looking for is some reassurence that the feelings you have for this guy are reciprocated and for him to take the lead.
It may well be a question of one of those instances where 'if you dont ask, you dont get'. In general I would think of a way that you can both be together in a relaxing enviroment where any inhibitions you have might fade away and try moving closer to him, see how he reacts.
Hopefully he might be emboldened enough to make a move towards you and offer you some affection. Alot will depend on your body language and the little subconscious messages you send out which you cant really 'script' except by trying to make sure you are relaxed around him and in turn he will be around you. Good luck :).
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