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writes:'ello, just gone to uni few weeks ago, met a girl who i can be myself around which is good cos im not the best at makin new aquaintances...anyhow i sorta like her, and i think she sorta knows i do...however we talk a fair bit and even after she found out i liked her through one of my friends we still have spent time together a fair bit. However i havent had mmuch experience in relationships due to my poor self confidence therefore dont wanna "make a move" as if i get put down it wud dent my confidence even more...however if i dont she may think that i aint interested so its tricky and dunno if shes just thinkin the same thing as me...yerr..cheers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): So here's the deal. In this life, you will ask people out and they will say no. The more people you ask the more will say now. But also (and this is the key here), the more you ask, the more people will say yes.
I had a pretty bad self-confidence problem, but got over it after my first relationship. A female friend coached me into saying the following to a girl I was attracted to:
"I think that you're really hot (attractive, sexy, funny, etc). We should go out."
It seemed extremely forward, and presumptive at the time. Well, it led to a couple dates. It didn't change the world. But those dates boosted my self confidence and the asking got easier, and now I'm in a relationship with a beautiful girl that I love very much who I never would have had to courage to ask out before that first attempt.
Best of luck brother.
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