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writes: I been with my girlfriend for awhile (almost a year.) But my sister (who's only 6) hates her. One day when she came over to my house. I couldn't answer the door so my sister answer it. And cover her with silly swing (I saw the whole thing.) She got at mad me saying I need to control her more. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think she just say it in heat of moment. Also my other sister's boyfriend doesnt if she does that to him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 September 2008):
She must have a reason for hating this girl. It could be that you haven't been spending any time with her so this new girl has "stolen" her big brother.
At 6, she thinks the world revolves around her and her tiny world.
I work in local radio and when I tell 6 yearolds they honestly think I am Famous and hang out with celebrities. If it happens outside their living room or school then they have no idea.
Talk to her and ask her why she did it. Then get your girlfriend to come round and be extra nice to the little brat and discuss hairstyles and high school musical I am sure as a cool older girl, she will be able to win your sister over as long as you take time to play with her and include her sometimes..
Yes it's not fair that your girlfriend has to put in MORE effort when she's done nothing wrong, but she is a teenager and your sister is very small.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 Well, have you talked to your little sister? Maybe she's feeling a bit left out, maybe she feels like her big brother isn't there for her anymore.
Try and ask her why she doesn't like your girlfriend, and explain to her that even if she doesn't, you do, and it'd be nice if she had a little respect for your girlfriend.
How does your girlfriend treat your sister? Is she nice to her, or does she ignore her? Is she mean to her? Maybe you should try and build up a relationship between the two of them - even if it's just your girlfriend saying hi to her or asking how school is going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): She's six. Its not her business who you go out with, kid.Your gf has no right to tell you how to deal with your own sister either.My advice is to keep them away from each other as much as possible.Flynn 24
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