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My work colleague is with someone else but I think we have chemistry! What do I do?

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Question - (22 March 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hey all, I really this woman at work and not sure if she likes me, we flirt alot but she is in a relationship and she has been hurt so many times past(I couldnt hurt a fly) we get on so well and i want to ask her on a date but first of all how, without ruining our friendship?

She e-mails me everyday, she calls me and texts me and we stay late together in the office, even when one of us hasnt got any work to do. Do you think she is just being friendly or is she interested? Everyone in the office thinks we are an item because she doesnt trust men and she laughs and jokes with me all the time! please help me

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (23 March 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntDear anonymous writer,

You are in a hard situation right now cause there is some up and downs you are going to run into....she is in a relationship right now and still flirting with you and all the other things she is doing, but she has been hurt and doesnt trust no men, but befor you even think about askin her on a date you should wait intil she is out of the relationship, because if she decides to kick it with you and then thinks about it and wants to be with the guy that she is with right now, then you two arent going to work and then all the fun times you guys have now wont be the same, and then when you see each other at work your day will be bad. you should ask her how she feels about you befor you ask her on a date and ask her about her relationship with this guy befor you even think about askin her on a date...well i hope i helped good luck

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