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writes: My wife thinks I cheated on here while on a seven month deployment and of course there is no way to prove other wise what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): If she's got it firmly entrenched in her mind that you've cheated she may take some convincing. Do as birdy says, get some quality time in together. If she still can't believe or trust you, you could try telling her that her insecurities and accusations could have the effect of driving you into the arms of another woman. After all, if you're going to be subjected to her accusations you might as well act them out!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 Don't entertain her insecurities by giving them more attention than they deserve. Focus your whole attention on being with her right now. She may have told you that all of her insecurities were about your being unfaithful, but I'll bet most of those insecurities were more about losing "YOU" in other ways, considering your deployment. It's probably just easier for her to voice it this way. Words may help, but your actions now will speak much louder. Get a lot of good together time in and SHOW her how much you have missed her and how much you care.
Good Luck!
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