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writes:My Wife and I have been together for 7, coming on to 8 years. Married for nearly 6 years, we have 2 lovely boys aged 4 and 21 months. This whole thing has come as such a shock to me. About 2 weeks ago my wife said that she didn't love me anymore and was no longer attracted to me. I was in the process of recovering from a bout of depression which started at the beginning of the year. She says that this is not due to anything about me, she says she couldn't ask for a better father of husband, she says she doesn't think she is right for me any more. I'm still in good shape, I make her feel loved and until the depression I always put her feelings before mine. What can I do?
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reader, EC  +, writes (15 July 2007):
I would think she has something going on with another guy. This is exactly what happened to me. My wife had an affair and soon after had several. One day she came home and said she didn't love me or want to be with me any more. Shortly after giving up hope and telling her I was looking foward to the divorce, she asked me to forgive her and wanted to salvage our marriage. Its holding, but I still lack trust in her. I would be trying to find out where she goes, with who, and start looking for any evidence she is cheating. Look at her cell records and get a GPS recorder to see where she goes. This all may be too late, but it will help you find the truth about why she wants out. Good luck.
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reader, justice_123 +, writes (14 July 2007):
sorry to say but she might have somebody else causse thats what it exactly sounds like take some money and hire somebody to follow her and se what her behavior is for at least a week and the piees will fall in place!
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