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anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, and have been sexually active for about 9 months. I am 16 and I have never had an orgasm. I feel left out because it seems I will never have one. I don't know if it is just because I'm younger, or if I should be concerned. All I get is a "good feeling" at the end or masturbation or sex, and never anything else. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): One of those shower massage things with the hose also works great. Set it on the setting so that it pulsates rapidly and aim it at your clit while laying on your back on the floor of the tub or shower. The warm pulsating water works wonders!Your boyfriend should also learn to use his tongue the right way to stimulate your clit. Then he should make you orgasm a few times that way before you ever have sex. That way you will already be really excited.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 You WILL have one. You and your guy need to find a way to get you to orgasm. The "good feeling" you are getting is you getting more and more aroused. Try experimenting with yourself one night in bed. It's the best way to find out what you like and what gets you off then you can tell your boyfriend.
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reader, justice_123 +, writes (14 July 2007):
first of all you shouldnt even be sexually active at 16 but maybe its just you nd your boyfriend need to have some role play or to watch porno together trust it may work or he maybe just the one not turning you on because to have and organism you need to just see the peson and explode just try the things i told you. and see how it goes ok
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