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writes:I have been married for 7yrs and been together for 11yrs i love my wife to bits but she has recently told me she is no longer in love with me and she doesn't want to be in the relationship any more we have 2 kids aged 3 and 6 i want her and love her so much but she doesn't feel the same she said there is nobody else she said that i am deep and don't show my feelings or talk to her about them and she said she finds it hard to talk to me i want it to work but i think she doesn't what can i do to show her are relationship is worth fighting for. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): Hello there... women really love attention from their loved ones... you must share and show your feeling.. be responsible and share everything with her (mind, feelings etc).
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): Women like to feel like they have a connection with their significant other.
Since you are not "deep" and do not share your feelings with her, etc. she must have slowly found herself slipping out of love with you.
Maybe open up a bit more, let her know how you're feeling. I know as a man, that may be a bit of a scary thought, but this could very well save your relationship.
You two really need to have heart felt conversations. And not just every once in a while, try to make them a routine if you can.
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reader, roadman +, writes (13 January 2009):
 Well for a start listen to what she has said...
Start showing some feelings and passion towards the woman,
and start talking to her,and open your ears and listen to what she saying..
You might have to start doing some over time and planning some holidays and trips out with you wife and kids...
Start spending alot of time with her,ask her what things would she like to do,and take an interest..
You've been together a long while so she may be looking for some fun things to do and some action to get her smiliing...Hit the pictures and catch some films,theme parks,walks in the country parks,weekend drives,eating out and gift shopping etc etc night clubing, get active and hit the roads with your wife and enjoy..
Take her out and show her off..If none of that works then let her do as she feels.
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