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writes:Me and my wife work at the some place and one day I just picket up her phone I don't no why but something made me daft I no as I when throw her Tex I seen lots to the some numbers so I opened it what I seen was my wife of 20 years which I love with all my heart sending Tex to are boss in work they are to dirty for me to put down she says that was the first time she had dun that but she says all its bin is Tex and that's all no more than that ok what do I do cos we both work at the some place but im finding hard to go back in to work after my wife as dun this to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): Hi love,
Im not supprised you feel this way it must have been heartbreaking for you to read those messages, You really need to sit down and talk with her properly, As you both work at the same place and have the same boss who so happens to be the person she has been texting I would really ask how this got started, It has to start somewere no one is going to just pick up the phone and write a dirty message to another if there has been nothing said to give either one of them ideas to do this.
You obviously love your wife so much and are willing to forgive her judging from your question, Is your boss married? There are all sorts of things I would need to understand as this is a breach of your trust for each other, I no this man is your boss hun but Id want to no what he was doing, This is your wife and he knows this...
You are going to feel very down thinking about this situation with work, She should at the very least have the time to sit and talk with you she must understand surely how hard this is for you. Even a text message is a suggestion and if your married why do it, Talking about it will hopefully help settle your mind a little, you must be so hurt I hope you work all this out and I hope this helped a little PLEASE TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXX
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