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writes: I don't know what to do. My wife and I have been married 19 1/2 years April 1st it will be our 20th. A day after christmas she didnt come home from work and her cell number is off. She will not talk to me and her parents say they have heard from her but don't know where she is. Her father is dying of lung disease in a month or two as he is on hospice, and our last child turned 18 the day after she left and went to stay at an apartment near the grandparents. We had a terrable christmas due in part i have a heath issue and it is causing me to be less than pleasant, but i refrained from telling her this as she has her hands full with her dad. I donot know where she is, and I wish she would talk to me. I dont know why she cant talk things out. Its the no knowing that hurts me so much. The other day the house we live in burned down while i was at work, it is an old house and i suspect the wiring is cause. I now need her to sign the insurance papers as she is listed as Joe and Angela and not joe and or Angela. She left a note that said that i would never see her again and that i could have everything before she left. What do I do? Orders from police are a no contact order unless its through them. I have cooperated fully. Guess I could get the town marshall who has talked to her to tell her she needs to sign this paper so I can begin cleanup progress on the property immediately especially since she doesnt want anything to do with it. the house was left me by my father and the estate is in my name. The insurance co. didnt add the ad or to the policy. they are thus looking into it now. Basically, she isn't here, and I have major work to do. Any suggestions?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 January 2009):
Forward the paperwork to her family, so she can sign them. If they have talked to her they can most likely forward them to her or someone who can.
I have no idea why she is doing what she did. And I feel like there is a whole lot of the story missing.
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