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My wife is 4 months pregant. Is sex safe during the pregnancy?

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Question - (16 September 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2007)
A male India age 41-50, *nguraj writes:

Hi ,

My wife is pregnant now, she is now 4 months. Is sex is safe during in this period. Or give me a suggestion.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

CONGRATULATIONS! YES, sex is fine during pregnancy. In fact it is downright essential!!! I found it greater then, you are already pregnant, so there is no worry there, just dont be rough, nice and gentle. I felt extremely sexy during pregnancy. By the way, my daughter just had a baby girl ELLA, last Wednesday!!

Take care and enjoy!

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

yea its safe unless shes in pain. have fun.

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A female reader, 88jane United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2007):

88jane agony aunthey!! congratulations on the baby!!

yes sex is fine during the pregnancy! my only suggestion would be that if your wife experiences any bleeding after intercourse to consult your midwife because there could be some erosion on the cervix! then it would be appropriate to stop for a while until this heals!

as the bump grows-things will become more awkward but there are plenty of sites on the internet that can advise you about good positions!

when the baby gets to term----have as much sex as possible!! there is a hormone in male sperm called progesterone that is proven to help dilate the cervix and prepare for labour!

so to conclude-----HAVE FUN!! and good luck!!

xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

Hi Love,

Sex is perfectly safe during pregnancy, The first three to four months it wont be showing as much, As time goes on the bigger your wife gets it will be more uncomfortable in the missionary possition, both of you can experiment as to which possition is best. congrats TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2007):

brooke5426 agony auntmy sister is currently pregnant and because she had a miscarriage recently, when she found out she was pregnant this time around the midwife advised her not to have sex for the first 3 or 4 months - not too sure why, i think it was to prevent any infection - but thats what she said but assuming your wife has never had any problems in early stages of other pregnancies or any miscarriages then it is perfectly safe.

best wishes and congratulations on your new addition!

xx

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (16 September 2007):

Sandman agony auntCongrats on the baby!

Yes, sex during pregnancy is perfectly safe. Sex doesn't harm the baby or mother in any way.

However, sex while pregnant can be a bit uncomfortable for the mother in missionary (you on top) position. So, try these out:

Her on top

Spooning

Sideways (facing each other)

Sitting (you sitting in a chair and she sits in your lap as you penetrate)

Rear entry/Doggystyle/Standing/Bend over (all good - mostly with her facing away from you and you entering her from behind).

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, shivon1705 United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2007):

shivon1705 agony auntSex is absolutly fine hun, just not rough sex, but sex is pretty normal while pregnant

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

congratulations, yes its safe to have sex throughout the pregnancy but the bigger the baby bump becomes your wife may start to find it uncomfortable.

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