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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I can't take it anymore. I feel like I am obsessed. There is this teacher at school, she is amazing, she has been so helpful and she is brilliant at what she does. I can't stop thinking about her.I lover her, but not in a sexual way. I love her like she was my mother. She is always so kind to me. Awhile ago I was having a really tough time with another student. I was talking to my friend and ended up crying, then the teacher came along and took me to her office. She asked me what was wrong, I explained and gave me a hug. (She is my head of year as well)She is always there for me but I can't get her out of my head. I always have dreams about her. I am constantly checking her facebook. Just seeing a picture of her helps me. When ever my parents shout at my I just picture her and it gives me the hope to go on.I just feel absolutely in love with her, bu again may I add not in a sexual way just like she is my mother. I just want to know if anyone else is this situation and what I should do. Please help. Xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): I feel the same way too. I love my teacher ad a mom too and I wish all the time if she could be my mom. And she treats me as if I am her daughter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): Hi sweetie, it is very good that you have a very nurturing person in your life that also appears to have good character.
Try not to let your brain activity worry you and just relax and settle down and be aware that everything is okay.
Sometimes if things are stressful, your brain can go a bit 'la la' but I bet if you take a walk or a few deep breaths everything is okay again.
It sounds like you have made her a little bit of an obsession because you lack the confidence within yourself to feel grounded at times of stress - perhaps try and replace the picture of 'her' with a picture about how good you feel, that you are worthwhile enough for people in life to like you. Keep practising this everytime she pops into your head after a dream until you feel very confident all round and you should find that your mind settles down much more!
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