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writes:Ok, this is going to be kind of long but I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!Hear it goes...I am 15 years old I am totally in love with my business studies teacher since year 8 and I think I’m getting to the point of obsession. I know a lot about him and my friend knows how I feel. I see him every day and I wish he would like me as much as I like him. He is in his early 30’s and is married. He is going to have a baby in November. He is the fittest teacher ever and I think he can even pass as the sexiest man in the world! He has the best personality, makes people laugh, kind, caring and considerate. A lot of girls also fancy him in my school but I think I’m going a bit over the top. I really don’t know what to do, I want to get over him and focus on my school work and meeting boys my own age by he is on my mind literally 24/7. HELP ME PLEASE TO GET OVER HIM..... EVEN THOUGH IT’S NOT POSSIBLE!!! :’( Reply to this Question
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reader, kitty_3  +, writes (27 October 2009):
 awww, i'm sorry. i'm going through something similar so i know that this must be difficult for you.
is he currently teaching one of your classes? if so, if you can switch out that would be great. try to avoid him as much as possible.
that's the best method i've found so far, anyway. good luck!!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): Take it from someone who became infatuated wih a teacher when I was 15; stayed on in sixth form so that I could get to know him better and now that I have left, am in an affair with him - You need to get over him NOW.
The harsh truth of it all is that you are never going to get to be with him. Not properly anyway. He is married and looking forward to the birth of his first child. There is too much of a difference in age and experience, and importantly, authority between you. And you deserve more than being a
These feelings can take over your life, and I know that more than anyone. I can completely understand how you feel. I can only advise you to just stay away from him as much as you can, hard as it may be, because you will be better off in the long run, and when you get the chance to leave school, just go and don't look back.
Good luck
xx
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